Stroking
People to Success - by Julie Hay©2003
A
stroke
- in the sense given to it by Eric Berne of Transactional Analysis renown
- is a ‘unit of recognition’, or an interaction between people.
It is anything we do that demonstrates in some way to another person
that we recognize their existence.
Dr
Berne pointed out that strokes are a biological necessity.
Human beings experience great difficulty in living without them.
In
this original article, Julie Hay defines the differences between positive and
negative strokes, between conditional and unconditional strokes, describes
stroking patterns, and then reveals how those patterns may be utilised to
nurture one's potential for better relationships and improved communication.