The
                        Casual Cruelty of Positive Intentions - by Michael
                        Mallows
                        Originally
                        intended to complement our issue on Bridging
                        Differences, it was decided that this poem was equally,
                        if not more, pertinent to the current theme of
                        relationships.
                        Michael
                        evidently intended his verse to bear on the parent/child
                        relationship, but we can also identify some connection
                        with his own experiences as a facilitator and
                        trainer.  It depicts some very common patterns of
                        behaviour and cause for self-analysis, if not concern,
                        on the part of those who treat the healing of others as
                        a resource for avoidance of their own self-awareness.
                         
                        
                         
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