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Volume 2 - No. 6 -  2003



'Every day and in every way I am getting better and better" - Emile Cou


How to Talk so He'll Listen and Listen so He'll Talk - by Paul W. Schenk

Communication on one level encourages response on the same level.  We tend to interact with others according to the perceived messages we are getting from them.  A behavioural pattern in you will induce certain behaviour in me.  Your use of words will elicit my use of words.  My response will key your response. 

In this article, Paul Schenk looks at one type of miscommunication that can be quite frustrating for couples. It is easy to blame the problem on other factors.